VERSATILE BLOGGERS AWARD


VERSATILE BLOGGERS AWARD

I received this Award from http://ranujanu.wordpress.com and it made my day (shhh it’s the little things that get me going)

The Rules are:
Thank the award giver and link back to them in your post.
Share 7 things about yourself.
Pass this award along to 15 recently discovered blogs you enjoy reading.
Contact your bloggers to let them know about the award.

 

Now, 7 things about myself ?….lol hmmm

1. I love to travel and find new secrets in life

2. I never stop learning about people

3. I work my ass off developing companies who need help

4. When it comes to relationships I have had The Angle,The Demon, and the one who was both extremes in one (oufff this one got me) and the hollow Girls next door.

5. I can hold a good conversation on just about any topic (not a know it all) but my head is full of the coffee table conversations.

6. There is a heaven,I found it in Jamaica

7. I have interest in Photography (love my 60D) … Art  (Modigliani rules) Science, Marine Biology, All music, Erotica, Health and Wellness of the mind….(and others that are Taboo and ya ain’t gonna find out unless face to face…lol)

Blogs I would give this Award to would be:

1. http://blameitondisney.wordpress.com/ (for her honesty)

2. http://gogetterkat.wordpress.com/ (for her free spirit)

3. http://ranujanu.wordpress.com/ (for learning how to deal with life)

4. http://johndatesguys.wordpress.com (for being strong enough to be openly Gay)

5. http://emdashwood.wordpress.com/ (hmmm…give me a minute)

 

 

I know it said 15 but i’m not one for rules…;-P

 

 

 

 

Hammering it Home


When starting Serendipity Dating Cafe we had the intentions of bringing to the internet a clean well thought out dating site with the comfort of a social network. We have seen this grow every day and is doing well. This maybe a personal note to my self but, I am amazed at the impact this has had on some people online. Some of you have responded to me with nothing but honesty and support and I want to thank you. There is one in particular that stands out www.blameitondisney.wordpress.com .  Here is a women who wears her opinion on her sleeve and who is not afraid to be her self. To read her opinions is refreshing and gives me the want to try to change the face of online dating.

If I can   offer one word of advice to all who read this. Do not get caught up in the dating world or it will become your world and you will have a difficult time finding the one to get out of the dating scene. I meet a women who had been dating for 3 years. She told me all kinds of good stories and bad but, she did tell me she got to comfortable with her lifestyle and regretted not putting in the effort on some of her dates. Slow down,chose wisely and don’t stray from who you are. You don’t find love it finds you.

Long Distant Relationship’s


We have spoken about this in a previous post. Due to the questions I received, I feel we should cover a few more details that may help you along the way. I am speaking of this  living day to day with it. I have been in 2 long distant relationships. One from Belarus and one from Canada.

The biggest hurdle  is time. You can profess  all the love and support in the world but at some point it has to become real. Time in these relationships is the killer. Think of it as a time bomb…tick…tick…tick. You have to understand that emotions will run very high because in your heart (mind) you have found your love in life. You can have the perfect plan put together and both work toward it with everything you have. Maybe it’s a year plan or even a 6 month plan. The issue is Time has a way of slowing you down (can’t quit your job as soon as you thought, trouble with and ex, money..and so on). There are so many factors that come without notice.

Long distant relationships can work and I know they do but before you talk with your heart, stop and think with your head and follow through with it. You need more then one or two meeting to decide if your going to follow through with it. Look at everything when you meet,your not on a vacation. Pay attention to the friends and family…use your head and investigate a little. Watch for signs and try to pick up on little details that would raise a Red Flag that may keep you from being happy in the relationship. Learn all you can about the person before you jump in with both feet….but jump before time runs out and the energy disappears…Tick…Tick…Tick

Serendipity Dating Cafe and Alexa


By becoming part of a global trend Serendipity Dating Cafe is please to be a part of Google +, Facebook, Twitter and Alexa. With new cutting edge design and allowing our clients to have the freedom in a dating/social setting we are growing fast. Look for our second site Dating Bug Cafe. com in spring . This will feature 18-30 year old and give then a place where they can communicate at there level and not get mixed up in all the profiles out there that just can’t be good matches.